Monday, April 6, 2015

Controversial Gates in Angkor Sangkranta, Siem Reap

Regarding the controversial Angkor Sankranta gates, admittedly, they look Vietnamese-or-Chinese-temple-inspired, which are different from our traditional styles, causing the uproar among Cambodians since politically, we're not so fond of the twos. But I don't think it's something to do with politics.
The design team might have thought of building the exciting vibe or catching people's attention in this upcoming Khmer New Year because Yellow and Red work best in contrasting the gates from the shadowy and peaceful surroundings in Siem Reap Angkor. It's good that Cambodians are sensitive with the influence of other cultures on ours but it's not OK to irrationally generalize whatever happens in this Kingdom is politically-driven, label others with different stance from ours traitors, or bash other nations by using whatever worst words existing in our language. It's not the gates that bring our culture down but we ourselves. Our words have proved the worlds that we're not civilized.
The concept of the event is all about celebrating Khmer culture and tradition in Siem Reap Angkor, the world heritage site, so it would be a foolish idea if anyone tried to blend ours with Vietnamese's or Chinese's, knowing that the public would be on fire. As a volunteer myself, I'm repeatedly told to be serious about presenting my Khmer identity in this event. My duty is to facilitate in Khmer popular games, and I have to practice with my fellow volunteers under the supervision of lecturers and professors from the Royal University of Fine Art every single weekend to make sure that games we're going to facilitate are traditionally played.
Not just that, although all volunteers already know how to sing national anthem and historical song, we need to dedicate half of every training time on rehearsing them, which makes me feel so BORED, and all of us, 3000 volunteers, will be given two sets of Khmer traditional clothes, not to mention a lot of things that have been done. Isn't it nonsensical that the organizers intentionally want the gates to be inspired by Vietnamese and Chinese structure after putting so much effort in promoting the originality of Khmer culture and tradition in this event?
Give yourselves times for a second thought before you let your fingers do the thinking!!!

Photo Credit: Mai YU (Facebook)

Thursday, February 12, 2015

The LO for Azerbaijan Delegation? Challenge Accepted

Assigned to be an LO (Liaison Officer) for Azerbaijan Delegation in UNWTO/UNESCO World Conference on Tourism and Culture hosted by Cambodian Government, specifically by Ministry of Toursim, I was quite blank since never had I known this country before, leading me to a mixture of a little disappointment and excitement. Shortly after this, I googled Azerbaijan up and found out some basic information but got no time to search for details because I was jammed with deadlines at my workplace and freelance work at that time, and most of the sites I searched were in Azerbaijan or Turkish itself, I’m not sure, which I couldn’t understand even a word.

Prior to the event, there were a few trainings for LOs to help us be ready for the hospitality for delegations’ stay in Siem Reap, Cambodia. It was so serious that got me nervous for just thinking of the stuff I was supposed to take lead. Arranging motorcade and VIP car together with SO (Security Officer) to mobilize delegates from Siem Reap International Airport to the hotel and vice versa, facilitating the delegates to pay a courtesy call to Prime Minister of Cambodia, assisting them during the gala dinner with the King of Cambodia, and many more were alien to me. But this wasn’t nerve-wrecking as the thought of working directly for the Deputy Minister of Culture and Tourism of Azerbaijan for five days.  My heart beat so fast when thinking of this. It was seriously worrisome  since I was so afraid of having flaws, which could easily displease the delegates. All I could do was prepare and prepare.

On the 2nd of Febuary, it came to welcoming my delegates at the airport. They looked so cold that I wasn’t even able to do self-introduction properly because of nervousness. There were two of them, one was Mr. Nazim Samadov, Deputy Minister of Culture and Tourism, and the other was Ramil Abbakirov, his assistant. My first impression was they were tough that needed me to remain professional and distanced as much as possible. I with people from Ministry of Tourism managed to get everything done for the check-in at the airport and the hotel but with some difficulties at the immigration office. First mission was turned down, and many more were coming tensely. The second day came, and it’s day I realized that they are really nice, easy-going and so down-to-earth after accompanying them to shopping at Old Market, pre-conference tour at Tonle Sap Lake and dinner at Pub Street. I was allowed to sit with them and had a talk on different topics. Since then, the barrier between us was demolished, and I started to feel close to them without being nervous anymore. Because of this, I was even more motivated to give all I had as an LO of Azerbaijan Delegation.

The third day which was the 4th of February was the toughest day. I was told by my team leader to be super serious regarding the courtesy call on Prime Minister of Cambodia by heads of delegations at Le Meredian Angkor Hotel. Again, this mission was successfully done with the chance to see my Prime Minister in real life for the very first time. In the evening, there came the biggest challenge of the conference, which was “Gala Dinner” with the King of Cambodia at the Elephant Terrace, 15-mins drive from the hotel my delegates stayed. Since every delegate was expected to join the motorcade with others to the venue at the same time, all LOs and responsible parties like VIP car drivers, SOs, protocol people and Ministry of Tourism of Cambodia were closely working together to make sure that all heads of delegations would be driven to the venue on time and safely. If not, LOs were the only person to receive all the blames. One of the matters that could possibly turn the process into a disaster was delegates’ lateness. Blessed enough, my delegates are the most punctual of all. While other LOs kept complaining about their delegates being late, I felt really sorry for mine for having to wait for others all the time during the conference since they were always on time. Finally, my delegates were brought to the venue and led to their seats together with the King and other delegates from all around the world to enjoy the dinner and Cambodian cultural performances, and it was another first time that I saw the King in real life.

Courtesy call and gala dinner had already passed, and the thought of indulging myself with a simple rest just came to me, but it didn't go as wished. Another big assignment was just thrown at me. It was a number of bilateral meetings with ministers from different countries that my delegates proposed. Never had I thought of being responsible for this task. Honestly, it sounded like the wall I couldn't climb because I’m not a kind who is up to challenge, but for that time, I needed to be even if I didn't want to. Arranging the bilateral meeting between minister and minister? Isn't it something that only protocol or international-affair officers can do? Thankfully, with the fullest support and cooperation from the secretariat and my fellow LOs responsible for ministers my delegates proposed to meet, several bilateral meetings with the Secretary General of UNWTO and the heads of delegations from Mexico, Republic of Korea, Seychelles and India, and small meetings with Minster of Culture and Minster of Tourism of Cambodia were smoothly arranged. OMG!!! The impossible things just happened to me.

With just a blink of an eye, the last day already came, so I was determined to get my delegates enjoy every single bit of the visit in Siem Reap Angkor. According to the plan, they were supposed to join the post-conference tour with other delegates, but because of the miscommunication with the travel agency responsible for arranging the tour and the lateness of other delegates’, we together with Lithuanian delegates decided to go for the tour on our own because I so hated to keep them wait any longer. Like planned, the whole day of temple tour was well spent. I was so humbly happy to be able to bring them to Bonteay Srey, Ta Prum, Angkor Wat and Bayon Temple, the Elephant Ride at Angkor Thom gate and finally another shopping for the spirit in the city center. It’s something that I couldn't be proud more when seeing the delegates interested in our temples.

The whole day of temple tour had gone; it was time they needed to leave Cambodia for Azerbaijan. Their flight was at 00:10 am, and I needed to stick with them until they were on board. Ironically, I told myself my mission was accomplished, but no. A big problem happened that almost got me burst out crying. Their flight was scheduled to transit in Beijing for 24 hours, so they would need the luggage for the personal use, but the airline company just sent them directly to Azerbaijan even with many notices from me and Ramil, telling they would transit in Beijing for 24 hours. To me, it was the darkest moment ever for being an LO. How could the worst thing happen at the last moment? However, with a very intense negotiation with the airline company, everything was settled, making me feel like being born again. I was assigned to send them off till boarding, initially, but was told by a person from Ministry of Tourism to leave the airport shortly after we were done sorting out the problem. No choice, I had to say good bye to them, leaving me traumatized by separation anxiety.

It was one of the greatest experiences I ever had. With the honor to work closely with very down-to-earth Deputy Minister of Culture and Tourism and his assistant from a far country I never knew. I got chance to learn new things and experience doing tasks I thought I was so limited to. I couldn’t be grateful enough for my team leaders from Council of Ministers for the great leadership, the organizing committee for the very well-organized conference, SOs, drivers  and my fellow LOs for their undying support and cooperation, and most importantly, my Azerbaijan delegates for accepting me as their LO and teaching me how worthy my volunteer work is. Mission accomplished!!!



Wednesday, February 11, 2015

Enough with the Stereotype


Born in rural area of Cambodia, which is culturally conservative, I had always been told not to be influenced by any foreign cultures regardless where they came from, making me regard any cultures different from mine were wrong. Politically, the hatred toward Vietnam, the neighboring country, had ingrained in me since birth because I am surrounded by the society that regards Vietnamese as our enemy due to countless cruel treatments and political influence from Vietnamese government on Cambodia as the history suggests.

Talking about my perspective toward the world, I branded western countries the heaven of democracy, peace and humanity. I defined Islam the religion of terrorism, so every Muslim, to me, was the terrorist. I stereotyped my fellow Asians the most selfish people of the humankind, and by Asians, I mean Chinese. All of my views toward certain race, culture and religion were shaped by people around me and local and international media, which the low interest in doing research on the matters also plays a role. I believe that the hatred or misunderstanding on Vietnamese, Muslims or Chinese exist not only in me but also most Cambodians, which lead us to nonsensically discriminate them in our daily life whether in school, workplace or international platform.

Not until I was selected to join programs abroad, with the participants from different Asian countries, I was able to interact with individuals who are Muslim, Vietnamese, Chinese and the like. I got my eyes open, realizing that not every Chinese is self-interested, Muslim is suicide attacker, or Vietnamese is obsessed with invading Cambodia. I felt guilty for having judged them the way I used to, for most of the people I encountered with were open-minded, respectful and selfless.

Therefore, I started to change my mind completely with the commitment to also change Cambodians’, starting from the family member, friends, neighbors to my students by advocating them not to jump into conclusion on certain race, culture or religion by the manipulated information or news the mainstream media and others wants us to know, because a lot more positive aspects behind the scene are not displayed.

Friday, May 23, 2014

Letter to the Minster of Education, Youth and Sports

Dear Your Excellency,

I am writing to raise my concern about the application to join 16th ASEAN-Korean Future-Oriented Youth Exchange Programme.

The deadline of the application is Monday 12, January 2014, but we, Cambodian youth just got the information today from the MoEYS Facebook page, which gives us, especially youth in the provinces, a very limited time to apply since Monday, the deadline day is all we have. I checked the MoEYS website regularly, but I did not see anything.

Isn't it obvious that the Ministry of Education is trying not to share it to the public to keep this opportunity for some exclusive people like it has always been rumored?

I don't know whether you have taken noticed of this matter or not, but please help us since there are a lot of young potential youth out there who are really qualified for the programme.

I wish you a very happy new year and success in leading the Ministry of Education, Youth and Sport.
Please excuse me for my informality in this letter since I'm so anxious to share to you. I look forward to your reply.

Best Regards,

CHEAB Puthika

Thursday, January 16, 2014

2013 Review

Looking back at how I’ve lived my life in 2013, I just feel so blessed. I didn’t get anything I wanted, but everything I needed was supplied by God. I have the family that can’t be exchanged with any priceless things on earth. And the besties around me never failed to cheer me up. I got friends that always taught me how to smile and to laugh like wild. I’ve received so much love up to the point that I forget how to hate people except my sh*tty government.

However, there’re still many problematic things that cost me heartbreak, headache, sickness, disappointment, stress, sadness, loneliness, and stuff. But who cares? Those sorts of things were sent to make a stronger me. I might have been disliked by some or even many people because of my wrongful acts or straightforward speaking, and I’m sorry for that if I hurt you to whatever extend. But if the inconvenient truth I spoke happened to make you feel uneasy, I’m sorry that I have no intention to stop me from expressing it out.Talking about the remarkable achievements, I think there’s nothing much. I got employed as a part-time English teacher which is the brand-new experience for me. Because of this job, I can live on my own, but still, I needa ask for extra money from mom for partying and shopping. More than that, I also left me some spaces for voluntary works that I’m kinda addicted to them, and thank God for exposing me to the right people that become my friends later on through those works.

The mission in 2013 is accomplished, and I’m ready to rock another one in 2014. Thank God, family (especially mom and dad), besties, friends, mates, and everyone I know for being around me just because of who I am. Happy New Year and GOD bless you all.

Change???

My Indian friend once told me, "you don't have to emigrate to America if you love America that much. Make your country the second America for you and your people." Honestly, I think it'll take eternity to make Cambodia become like America, but I positively believe that we, Cambodians, will make a better Cambodia if we're committed enough not to place our own interest in the first priority.

"It's not the real happiness when enjoying your material comfort while people sharing your nationality are fighting for the basic needs."

Saturday, September 21, 2013

My Faithful Buddy

Literally speaking , we've been together for more than three years, but I feel like it's just a second. You're from the country superior to mine, but you didn't stay up high like a boss but a good buddy instead, who always accompanied me to my destinations whether it's in the sunny, stormy, windy, rainy or cloudy day, or on the smooth, bumpy, paved, unpaved, wide, narrow, straight or curved roads. You didn't care what the people said how outdated, slow and crap you were. All you cared was to help me through every path I chose to drive on. Now I'm sorry that I have to send you away, and by any chance will we meet, I hope we won't be strangers but the best friends who are physically far but emotionally, spiritually, and mentally close to each other.
You'll always be in my heart and brain.
Good bye, my Honda Super Cup 50...!